Lovely morning.How impossible it may be for us to try to persuade them by various means, or to control them the way we think they should be. And the more we try, the harder the door to the other person’s heart is closed and sometimes even locked. There are many beautiful words in this world, but not all of them can control someone’s mind. It is only when the person who hears the words opens the door to their own mind that they will listen to the advice, start something new, or modify their behavior. In other words, human beings cannot change or create any thing unless they themselves become aware of it and decide to change it.
Most of the time, we tend to try to change someone else by using very convenient words, and even a few negative words such as “if you don’t do this, it will end badly,” but this is not useful in any way, even considering the damage to each other’s body and mind. It is better not to do this. It is better not to try to change someone, even if it is your child, your partner, your student, or your friend.
Words are meant to bring awareness to others, but it may be your own actions that deliver that awareness. For example, words without action have no persuasive power.
Each one of us is one and only one. Each of us has our own identity, and it is very important to respect that. In other words, one of the best ways to achieve change for yourself or someone you care about without feeling unnatural stress is to become aware of the changes you can freely control, rather than trying to force changes in someone else. Instead of trying to control the other person, it may be important to express our own opinions and listen to the other person’s opinions with respect while talking about what we should do in this way. The words you use to express your positive attitude may help them realize that they can open the door to your heart.