Lovely morning.Each of our lives is different. And as we live day by day, we may get lost in many things. You may be wondering which cake to eat in front of a cake shop, which university you should go to, what kind of work you would like to do in the future, with whom you would like to build a family in the future, and many other things you may have to choose every day.
The choice you make will depend on the situation you are in at the time, and on the comfort you have at the time. There is no right or wrong answer. If you think it is the right choice, it is the right choice, and if you think it is the wrong choice, it may be the wrong choice. And depending on how you live your life, the choice you think you made at the wrong time can move your life in such a positive direction that you will want to praise yourself for making that choice.
And if you want to master one thing and you’re not sure whether to do it or not, maybe you should take the plunge. If you are unsure, it is because there is a feeling within you that you will always want to do it.
The past is something you can’t control no matter how hard you try, but the mechanism of the mind that leaves you with regrets is not about what you wish you hadn’t done, but about what you wish you had done at the time. This is because there are always consequences for what you do, and you can take any number of next steps to deal with those consequences. This is exactly what it means to learn from mistakes, to learn from the past and to learn from experience. However, if you don’t do something, there are no consequences. Therefore, no matter how long you think about it, you don’t know how it would have turned out, so it may remain in your mind and leave a hazy feeling in the form of regret.
It would be good if you could make a choice to do or not to do something so that when you live 10 or 20 years from now, you will not have strong regrets about what you should have done at that time. And if there is an opportunity in front of you right now, and you are wondering whether you should do it or not, think about it once. You don’t know if the opportunity will ever appear in front of you again. It is only when you have the ability and strength to do it that the opportunity will come to you and you will realise that it is right in front of you. One life option might be to take that chance and then try to do what you want to do first, and then steer your own life from there by thinking about how you want to live your life. And that is a wonderful hesitation, choice and decision that you can try and do whatever you think your heart would be happy with, no matter how old you are and what state you are in right now.